Dr. Wm. Alexander Gray died peacefully in his home on Thursday, May 18, 2017. Alex was a distinguished general surgeon in Sarnia for over 50 years. He was predeceased by his first wife, Marguerite (Cruickshank) in 1974 and his second wife, Cheryl (Martin) in 2016. He is survived by his children Kathy Wakely (Peter), Joanne Abbott (Bill), John Gray, Lisa Gray (Chris), Susan MacQueen (Shane), Rob Gray (Kat) and Sandra Gray (Chris). He is also survived by 16 grandchildren and 9 great-grandchildren. Alex was an enthusiastic golfer, curler, sailor, and a lover of animals. He approached life with energy and optimism. He felt privileged to provide surgical care to his patients and had deep respect for his medical colleagues. Special thanks to Jewel Hiemstra, his primary caregiver, and the many others who provided compassionate care to dad and his family over the last year. Also, thanks to Dr. Brian Davies and his wife, Sharon. Family and friends will be received at SMITH FUNERAL HOME, 1576 London Line, Sarnia, on Monday, May 22, 2017, from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. and 7:00 to 9:00 p.m. A private family service will be held with the interment in Bear Creek Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, sympathy may be expressed through donations to the Bluewater Health Surgical Department (cheques only at the funeral home please).
Dr. Wm. Alexander Gray
VisitationFamily and friends will be received at SMITH FUNERAL HOME, 1576 London Line, Sarnia, on Monday, May 22, 2017, from 2:00 to 5:00 p.m. and 7:00 to 9:00 p.m.
ServiceA private family service will be held with the interment in Bear Creek Cemetery.
DonationsIn lieu of flowers, sympathy may be expressed through donations to the Bluewater Health Surgical Department (cheques only at the funeral home please).
mary anne pick (nee harris)
January 1, 2018 06:38pm
You were Uncle Alec when you and dad (Dr. George Harris) shared office space on East Street back in the 70's. And you were there when mum and dad were so very sick and dying of cancer. I remember so many house visits that summer uncle Alec. You made our pain bearable with your warmth, kindness and understanding.
Thank you Uncle Alec. See you on the other side.'
Jennifer Bright (nee Grant)
July 26, 2017 10:56pm
Sending some late condolences but heart felt. It was during my youth and childhood that I knew Dr. Gray. As a friend of Lisa through public school and into high school I visited often, babysat occasionally, and even travelled on vacation with the family. I remember once how surprised he was when I ordered salad with blue cheese dressing as a 12 year old. Dr.Gray was a kind man and father. He was a dedicated physician. I will always remember his warm eyes when he smiled. I was sorry I could not be with you in May but wanted to merit the memories by leaving a wee message. I shall continue to think of you in prayer. May God bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead.
June 18, 2017 02:13am
Happy Father's Day, Dad. Sorry we let that awful woman take the piano against your wishes.
Linda and Kirk Oleniuk
June 13, 2017 02:28pm
Joanne and Kathy,
I know your dad will be truly missed.
He was a wicked squash player, a compassionate healer and a really good guy.
My heart goes out to you.
Linda and Kirk
Doug Young and Kathy Butler
May 23, 2017 05:45pm
We want to express our condolences to the family. We enjoyed our visits with Alex immensely, and always had frank, engaging conversations with him on whatever the topic. We are thinking of you all and share your great loss.
May 23, 2017 02:19pm
My sincere condolences to Dr. Gray's family. Alex was a great surgeon who served the community well. I have fond memories of assisting Alex at Sarnia General and St. Joseph's Hospitals and later having the pleasure of being his golfing partner. He will be greatly missed.
Jacob and Shoba
May 23, 2017 12:04pm
Kathy and Joanne, our condolence on the passing of your Dad. May his soul rest in peace.
May 23, 2017 08:52am
Condolences on your loss. I knew Dr Gray from years of working at the hospital. He was an amazing person and Physician. He was always pleasant, and made time for everyone . He will be greatly missed.
Blessings and Prayers to all
Kim Terry Soeder
May 22, 2017 01:19pm
Deepest sympathy in the loss of a great physician/surgeon and true gentleman, who took time to acknowledge, have a brief chat and treat everyone with respect, whether he was at work or out socializing.
He will truly be missed
Kim & Terry Soeder
Ross and Dorothy (McIntyre) Kerby
May 21, 2017 02:19am
Our Condolences to the Wakely family.
Your dad and grandpa performed several surgeries for my McIntyre family. He kept my father from falling by asking my dad to sit down before he fainted in ER while performing a surgical procedure on me as a little girl. That was many years ago.
May sweet memories bring joy to your heart
and a smile to your face for many years.
Blessings, Ross, Dorothy, Julie and Jeff Kerby
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